My love secrets

From where I sit to write this , I could literally feel love in the air , as I put my hands on the keyboard to put my thoughts down , goose pimples line up my upper arms causing me to shake . This time of the year is when torrent of hormones flow unending in my bloodstream, making me cry with joy whenever I watch a country romance comedy where the man sweeps his maiden  off her feet , this period is when I dare to reveal more of myself to my friends , fellow bloggers  and tell them few things I can’t ever apologize  for , at least in this present world.

To people that don’t really know me, because I must  confess, am quite complex to understand , one minute ,I might be a drama queen and laugh like someone with no worries in the world ,the next minute I am all serious ,facing my business . Firstly , to know me is to know that am so into God , totally sold out to  Him and since He discovered and wooed me and I became His sweetheart , I have always been bursting in my seams to share the Good News of  this incredible love story.

Since this romance between Him and I started , there are lots of sentences like these ‘’ What will I do without Jesus ?, I love You so much , Am nothing without You ‘’ have comfortably wiggled their ways into my day to day lexicon . That doesn’t mean I am perfect , in fact I still have a long way to go  or I don’t commit biblical faux pas ,it simply means I am nothing without God and I will keep searching and chasing Him till I become all what He wants to become.

Another thing you won’t ever see me being ashamed of, is my diehard obsession for romance . I am a sanguine and the whole idea of ‘boy meets gir’l is such a big deal to me, any day ,  I am a sucker for love . I am one of the girls that got exposed early  to the world of knights in shining armour through the reputed Mill and Boons , though over the years , some  princes have turned to frogs , it still doesn’t change my perception of love.

Yes, I agree that age and experience has finally succeeded in  making  my head correct, unlike former years when I was starry eyed and quite stupid , am still a fan of love because I believe in it . There are deep rooted ideologies that I am going back to , there are basics of romance that must bloom again regardless of the dark clouds that pervade the horizon , there are God-created rules about love that must be followed again .

It’s Valentine again , and am gushing with so much love , I wish you could see my heart right now , love is not something anyone should give up on , it is not a commodity in the market that anyone should  ignore . I know this world is so unfair and dirty , but common on , that is the reason why love is needed , it opens us to a new world where beauty doesn’t count , where charisma is so embarrassed to show its face , because Love rules.

Love is what makes me  laugh hysterically in the bathroom when I remember what my man said in his last conversation , it is what makes me 18 years again as I dance around my room trying to picture his face next to mine . Love is what makes me blush when no one is around except for the memories of our togetherness, love is beautiful that is not restricted to male/female alone , it is what makes you see a beggar on the roadside and stop to drop few naira in the outstretched hands.

Love is what makes you treat everyone with fairness regardless of their class, age , it is what makes you want to wake up everyday and face this cruel world.

Happy Valentine to all my friends , bloggers , this time next year ,it will be a better one for all of us as all our prayers will have been answered .

24 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. Bomi
    Feb 13, 2011 @ 21:20:00

    Happy Valentine’s day:)! Wishing you much love and much joy now and always.

    Love Always,



    • Tolu
      Feb 14, 2011 @ 19:41:16

      Sister mi , what can I say, Happy Valentine to you and everyone at home, may the spiritual eyes be more opened that we may discover the length and the depth of God’s love for us.


  2. anoda phase
    Feb 13, 2011 @ 23:07:17

    Happy Valentine’s day to u too…I definitely share ur love for God, and for all things love/romance.


  3. temiville
    Feb 14, 2011 @ 00:38:24

    Happy Vals Day sweetheart! God bless you loads. Keep being a romantic…


  4. Imoyabaville
    Feb 14, 2011 @ 02:16:37


    Good talk. Love is everything. In an atmosphere where love reign supreme, there you will find peace and joy, no wonder the most important law of God is LOVE. Imagine a society where we all love each other, surely evil will have no place to reside.

    Happy valentine to you.


    • Tolu
      Feb 14, 2011 @ 21:36:20

      Yomi, like my usual , ‘What will I do without God, am simply nothing’, His love is what is still making sane.Happy Valentine, bros


  5. adeshina
    Feb 14, 2011 @ 08:42:43

    happy valentine to you.hmmmmm.i can feel your desire and true passion for love and being in love.nothing is as good as a perfect love.cheers


    • Tolu
      Feb 14, 2011 @ 21:37:52

      Adeshina,lol , yes I know am that vibrant, passionate daughter of God, thank God for His mercies. Happy Valentine to you , hope you are good.


  6. Aderemi Awe
    Feb 14, 2011 @ 09:48:12

    Nice one. Happy Val Tolulope!


  7. Tomexy
    Feb 14, 2011 @ 11:58:06

    Happy valentine’s day to you too .
    No mater how tempting it is – one should really never give up on Love. You are so right.

    Temiville introduced me to your blog – and I am your co-theme user. Nice to meet you 🙂


  8. Buky
    Feb 14, 2011 @ 14:00:57

    Have a lovely day and never ever give up on love and romance.


    • Tolu
      Feb 15, 2011 @ 13:07:28

      I won’t ever give up , ma , aunti, you have taught me to be patient, calm and prayerful, am getting there,Happy VALENTINE


  9. lovely me
    Feb 14, 2011 @ 14:26:06

    Beautiful write-up.
    Happy Valentine Tolu darl.
    Have fun.
    Luv yah.


  10. Jaycee
    Feb 14, 2011 @ 16:11:49

    “Love is what makes me laugh hysterically in the bathroom when I remember what my man said in his last conversation….” (That made me smile because I understand, lol). Happy Valentine’s day to you too, Tolu 🙂


  11. Adeola
    Feb 15, 2011 @ 13:40:23

    “This time of the year is when torrent of hormones flow unending in my bloodstream, making me cry with joy whenever I watch a country romance comedy where the man sweeps his maiden off her feet”
    That is it! that means some people don’t feel LOVE everytime. Some have their peak period. lol
    Happy Valentine to you dear. I hope you are going to be an epitome of LOVE in it sense. Keep it up.


    • Tolu
      Feb 15, 2011 @ 13:43:42

      Bros, thank you so much for dropping by and reading , Happy Valentine , may the love of God envelope us daily and we become exactly what He wants to become.


  12. funmi
    Mar 18, 2011 @ 08:01:51

    wow , this got me so engaged , love , love , love , i tot you were gonna be revealing who the guy is ………..wink * wink * ..nice piece


    Feb 13, 2012 @ 18:40:52

    Today makes it a year you wrote this and its such a wonderful piece.God bless you darling happy vals day.xoxo


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